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Abby Beasley

Could Friendship Be a Salve for Church Hurt?

emotional embrace between friends

I always tell my students that tax collectors were kind of like mobsters. They weren鈥檛 your typical blue-collar criminals; they were the worst kind of traitor, getting rich off the imperial oppression of their own people.  

Because of their questionable vocation, tax collectors were treated like they鈥檇 sold their souls: They couldn't testify in court, they were often disowned by their families and shunned by their community, and they weren鈥檛 welcomed in synagogues  

Talk about church hurt.  

ZacchaeusThe Don of Jericho

In Luke 19, we meet a chief tax collector named Zacchaeus. If we stick with our mobster analogy, the chief tax collector isn鈥檛 just one of the guys in the ranks. Zacchaeus is  of Jericho. He鈥檚 the leader of the syndicate in his city.  

If tax collectors are bad, Zacchaeus is, well鈥 extra bad.  

He鈥檚 a man who has everything. He鈥檚 undoubtedly one of the wealthiest men in his city 鈥 maybe even in all of Rome鈥檚 empire. He鈥檚 corrupt. He鈥檚 power-hungry. He鈥檚 an extortionist 鈥 a man willing to sacrifice his own people on Rome鈥檚 altar if it means shaking the pennies from their pockets. 

Even those of us who haven鈥檛 seen the movie (It鈥檚 me, hi!) can conjure a mental image of The Godfather. When we think of Don Corleonewe think of a man people feared and respected, even as they hated him. It鈥檚 not far reaching to extend this persona to Zacchaeus. 

Yet, in his story, instead of commanding lackeys from behind a desk, Zacchaeus rolls up his sleeves and climbs a tree to catch a glimpse of the strange rabbi, Jesus, everyone has been talking about.  

There鈥檚 something profoundly humble and childlike in that choice. Can you imagine Don Corleone in a tree? 

When Jesus sees Zacchaeus, he approaches a Jewish mobster hanging from the branches and gives him a beautiful extension of friendship (which, I think, is often lost on modern readers). He calls Zacchaeus by name, tells him to climb down, and invites himself over to Zacchaeus鈥 house to stay. Zacchaeus, to the reader鈥檚 surprise, responds immediately and excitedly. 

But while Jesus is at Zacchaeus鈥 house, the people complain about him. They鈥檙e no longer solely disgusted by Zacchaeus, but Jesus too.  

It would have been one thing to teach Zacchaeus. But to enter his home? To be with him like a friend? That was to refrain from condemning him, and that was too far.  

Bearing his shame and calling him son 

It鈥檚 interesting, isn鈥檛 it? Even here, before the cross, Jesus is bearing the shame of his people. The people don鈥檛 like Zacchaeus, and when Jesus associates with him and extends friendship, they decide they don鈥檛 like Jesus either. Jesus takes on Zacchaeus鈥 shame.  

And it works. 

Where Zacchaeus had been rejected, Jesus offers acceptance. Where Zacchaeus had been wounded, Jesus offers healing.  

Zacchaeus responds to Jesus鈥 friendship with transformation: 鈥淚鈥檓 giving everything I stole back to everyone I stole from, fourfold!鈥 When you consider that the nature of this man鈥檚 job is stealing, it鈥檚 hard to imagine he鈥檒l have anything left after fulfilling such a promise. 

And, in response, Jesus affirms Zacchaeus鈥 place among the sons of Abraham 鈥 the very people who claimed Zacchaeus had been cut from the family tree. With his statement in Luke 19:9, he essentially says, our people have rejected you, but I say you are still a child of God. I came for the lost, not those who have already been found.  

This isn鈥檛 to say that the things people had said about Zacchaeus weren鈥檛 true. He was a mobster, after all. 

Rather, it means that Jesus鈥 acceptance of Zacchaeus isn鈥檛 contingent upon his behavior or others鈥 opinions.  

What about us?  

The people who hated Zacchaeus, and then Jesus by association, probably felt justified in their hatred. Everything about Zacchaeus was antithetical to their religious way of life.  

How often do we hurt people because they don鈥檛 fit into our 鈥渞eligious way of life?鈥 Do we feel justified in hurting others because they don鈥檛 fit into our understanding of what it means to follow Jesus?  

Ultimately, this wrong and self-righteous belief has led to many people turning away from Jesus, not toward him. 

As Jesus-followers, it would do us well to realize that there are victims all around us, on campus and in the world, who have giant, gaping church-inflicted wounds. Where have you seen your peers experience rejection from the church? I urge you to consider: How might you partner with Jesus to offer them friendship and healing? 

It seems that, to Jesus, 鈥榬ight behavior鈥 wasn鈥檛 a prerequisite to friendship. In this story, and in countless others, it was actually his ability to make friends with the 鈥渨rong people鈥 that resulted in their salvation. His friendship was a salve on the wound of rejection inflicted by the religious people around them.  

And if we are to be like Jesus, if we are to, like him, be reconcilers on campus and in every area of our lives, then we are also not here for the found, but for the lost.  

Our friendship, like Jesus鈥, is a balm. Our radical acceptance of people who don鈥檛 fit can be their salvation. Entering into their spaces, even the spaces that make us or others uncomfortable, can remind them of the fact that they, too, are a child of God, even if someone has said otherwise.  

I encourage you to pursue friendship with the Zacchaeus鈥 on campus. Because our friendship with the 鈥渨rong person鈥, the person who has been wounded by the church and who is living lost, is exactly the kind of thing God might use to draw them into his beautiful and upside-down kingdom. 

 

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Abby Beasley serves with 果冻视频 as a Campus Staff Minister in the South Indiana Area. You can support her ministry .

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