An Open Letter to Future Alumni
Dear Future Alumni:
You鈥檙e about to embark on a journey that nobody can truly prepare you for. Sure, you can join the graduating senior small group as they study Following Jesus in the Real World by Richard Lamb or you could go to the conference with workshops for graduating seniors. Heck, you could even go on staff as an intern for a year or so, just to ease yourself into the real world, sans 果冻视频.
As great as all of the above is, no one can truly tell you what to expect when you leave a college fellowship and join the rest of the adults in post-college life. Each experience will be different, even if you choose the same path as your peers.
But from my personal experience, there are some things I wish I were aware of on the day I said goodbye to 果冻视频 as a student. Things that would鈥檝e made the transition much smoother.
1. Your new home church will not emulate your college fellowship experience.
Whether you return to your home church or you start church hopping for one to call home, don鈥檛 expect it to look like 果冻视频. I have yet to find a church that will sing worship songs in ten thousand different languages or study the Bible with highlighters, colored pencils, and glitter pens. They are few and far between and probably started by 果冻视频 alumni. But just because your new small group doesn鈥檛 do inductive Bible study doesn鈥檛 mean they don鈥檛 understand the Bible.
Have an open mind when checking out churches and don鈥檛 be too quick to try to change your home church into IVCF Parte Deux. But don鈥檛 settle either. If your heart is yearning for a ministry that reaches out to the homeless and the church has one too many small groups that meet up to do zumba, don鈥檛 hesitate to try to make it happen. You are an 果冻视频 alumnus. We pride ourselves in being world changers. Start at home. Just be prepared to ruffle some feathers. You鈥檒l end up finding a great in between where the church's cultural strengths meets the growing, developing passions in you.
2. You will need to embrace and value your non-Christian friendships.
After hanging out and living mostly with 果冻视频 folks all through college, it may seem that all of your friends are Christian. However, unless your future career is in a church or another Christian organization, it鈥檚 very likely you鈥檒l have to interact much more with the secular world. And I don鈥檛 mean creating GIGs in the workplace right away (while that is all fine and dandy). Get to know people who don鈥檛 know Jesus and get to know them more than some sort of evangelism project.
I鈥檝e learned a lot about myself as a Christian from my interactions with my non-Christian friends as well as some interesting thoughts on God. I鈥檝e learned to be vulnerable with these friendships and in turn, helped them see much more of what living a life as a Christian really is by being honest with imperfections and struggles. These friendships have opened my eyes to the fact that I had always been in a bubble, a bubble that had me speaking Christian-ese and made it hard for non-Christians to want to get to know me, let alone the God I worship. Be a real human being and a real friend to people who aren鈥檛 Christians.
3. Be willing to change.
I don鈥檛 know how else to title this last point, but you鈥檙e not going to be 20-something forever. You鈥檙e not going to have the same energy you had in the dorms or at conferences or worshiping all night long at Urbana. Your life is going to slow down and you may not feel as 鈥渙n fire鈥 for God as you did as a college sophomore leading your first Bible study. And I can鈥檛 stress this enough, but that is okay.
Your life is constantly going to change from this point on and so will your relationship with God. Whatever guilt you may feel for not studying the Bible as often as you used to or not serving the church in the capacity that you served in 果冻视频 does not mean you are less godly, less spiritual, or less loved by God. Worship is going to look different because you are going to be different. You will experience new pains and sufferings and you will experience new joys and blessings. You鈥檙e not going to process those things with God or your community in the same way you used to because you will most certainly be a different person even in a few years out of college. Be willing to let go of the college you and take a step towards whatever kind of adult God is developing in you as you step into this new chapter of life.
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