Thanksgiving / en A Time to Give Thanks /news/time-give-thanks <div class="layout layout--twocol-section layout--twocol-section--33-67"> <div class="layout__region layout__region--first"> <nav role="navigation" aria-labelledby="-menu" class="_none block block-menu navigation menu--about-us-menu"> <h2 class="visually-hidden" id="-menu">About Us Menu</h2> <ul class="clearfix nav" data-component-id="bootstrap_barrio:menu"> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/what-we-believe" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-what-we-believe" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/9386">What We Believe</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/our-purpose" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-our-purpose" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6927">Our Purpose</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/financial-info" title="Financial Info" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-financial-info" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6926">Financial Info</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/2024-2025-annual-report" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-2024-2025-annual-report" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/10901">2024-2025 Annual Report</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/leadership" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-leadership" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6928">Leadership</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/intervarsity-and-ifes-history" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-intervarsity-and-ifes-history" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6925">¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ and IFES History</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/news" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-news" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6929">News</a> </li> <li class="nav-item menu-item--collapsed"> <a href="/about-us/press-room" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-press-room" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6931">Press Room</a> </li> </ul> </nav> </div> <div class="layout__region layout__region--second"> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-news-type"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-news-type field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/2104" hreflang="en">News</a></div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-published-on"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-published-on field--type-datetime field--label-hidden field__item">November 23, 2016</div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-author"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-author field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Tom Lin, president, ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ</div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewstitle"> <div class="content"> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden"><h1>A Time to Give Thanks</h1></span> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-square-image"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-square-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <img loading="lazy" src="/sites/default/files/styles/300x169/public/news/crossing_cultures_0.jpg?itok=jyVIRkWi" width="298" height="169" alt class="image-style-_00x169"> </div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsbody"> <div class="content"> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-body field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Growing up, the Lin family Thanksgiving tradition was simple: my brother and I playing football with church youth group friends, buying last-minute groceries, assisting mom and dad with cooking and cleaning, and then heading to the potluck dinner at our Taiwanese Church. The dinner always included one small symbolic turkey along with 99 other delicious Chinese dishes.</p> <p>It was around Thanksgiving that I observed one interesting thing about my parents. They never said ā€œThank youā€ very much, that weekend or any weekend for that matter. They never expressed it to the other cooks in the church kitchen or to the checkout cashiers at the store. They never said ā€œThank Youā€ to me.</p> <p>One day I finally confronted them on this. ā€œWhy don’t you ever say ā€˜Thank you?ā€™ā€ I asked. And they responded, ā€œWhat good is saying ā€˜thank you’? It is just words. It’s unnecessary. Show me action. If you are thankful, show it instead of saying it.ā€</p> <p>So, growing up, I didn’t have the habit of thanking people. I didn’t know how to thank people. It wasn’t until being an ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ student leader, that I saw so many of my peers embody gratitude with their words and their hearts. I realized that I needed to learn the discipline of giving thanks.</p> <p>For some of us, giving thanks is natural, it’s an outflow of who we are. For many of us, it’s a discipline – something we needed to be reminded of, something we often forget, or perhaps something that seems a little unnecessary. But the Scriptures seem to say something different.</p> <p>The Psalms give us many examples, such as <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm+107&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank">Psalm 107</a>:</p> <p><sup>1</sup>ā€œGive thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever...ā€ <sup>8</sup> ā€œLet them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind, <sup>9</sup> for he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.ā€ [NIV]</p> <p>The command or imperative in Verse 1 is repeated 44 times in the Bible:&nbsp;ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.ā€ Verse 8 is also repeated verbatim four times in this Psalm. Verses 15, 21, and 31 have the same imperative: ā€œLet them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankindā€.</p> <p>Note that thankfulness is totally tied to <em>who</em> God is -- Thankfulness is tied to God’s goodness and God’s love. The more we learn about God, the more we should praise and glorify Him.</p> <p>Another example from the New Testament is found in <a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=I+Thessalonians+5&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank">Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonians, chapter five</a>:</p> <p><sup>12&nbsp;</sup>Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you.<sup>13&nbsp;</sup>Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work...<sup>16&nbsp;</sup>Rejoice always, <sup>17&nbsp;</sup>pray continually, <sup>18&nbsp;</sup>give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. [NIV]</p> <p>So when should we have this discipline of thanksgiving? When is a time to give thanks? All the time, in all circumstances, <em>ā€œfor this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.</em>ā€ Often when we look at this passage in Thessalonians we see pray continually or pray without ceasing. What we sometimes miss is that Paul is saying give thanks without ceasing, in all circumstances.</p> <p>We give thanks not just on Thanksgiving Day, not just when times are good, when there is fruitfulness on campus, not only when project deadlines or Urbana milestones are hit, not only when the bell rings with another major donor gift or when my 60-year old father gets a clean bill of health, but even when circumstances are not so positive.</p> <p>We are to give thanks even after my chapter plant goes down or a critical magazine article goes viral, even when project deadlines are missed, or when ministry partner appointments go badly, or my 60-year old mother gets diagnosed with a chronic disease. What does it mean to give thanks in all circumstances?</p> <p>In my last 20 years of leadership in the U.S. and abroad, I’ve seen more and more disappointment, suffering, and horrible circumstances. I’ve learned that if I’m going to maintain a posture of giving thanks, it’s going to have to be a spiritual discipline I learn and commit to.</p> <p>So as I’ve been reflecting during this Thanksgiving week, I’d like to share five things that I’m personally giving thanks for:</p> <h4>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; I give thanks for the global church and the International Fellowship of Evangelical Students (IFES) that ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ is a part of.</h4> <ul> <li>&nbsp;Increasingly, I am keenly aware of how there are fewer and fewer unique challenges we in the U.S. and the American church go through, and how there are more and more situations in which the global church has something to say to us – from campus access, to our desire to see Revival and Witness empowered by the Holy Spirit, to our desire to see graduates integrate faith and vocation, to how to thrive in a divisive political climate.</li> <li>I give thanks for the global church I am a part of. &nbsp;I give thanks for the fellowship of over 160 IFES student movements around the world.</li> </ul> <p>Next week, I’ll be flying to Abuja, Nigeria, for the NIFES student missions conference – 7,000 students, gathering to gain vision for global missions. The Nigerian movement is the largest IFES movement in the world, larger than the U.S.</p> <ul> <li>&nbsp; It has continued to grow in the midst of Boko Haram extremism, terror and persecution, and corruption.</li> <li>&nbsp;The global vision of the Nigerian church has also continued to grow – now 100 mission agencies with thousands of missionaries around the world, including here in the U.S. They have planted 500 churches in the US!</li> <li>&nbsp;The largest church in UK/London is a Nigerian Church. The largest church in Europe outside of UK is also, a Nigerian Church.</li> </ul> <p><em>ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.ā€</em></p> <h4>2.&nbsp;&nbsp; I give thanks to the Lord for students coming to faith across the country, in our own movement.</h4> <ul> <li>&nbsp;Over 4,000 first-time decisions for Christ in each of the last two years, record numbers for both of those years.</li> <li>&nbsp;I give thanks that I get to be part of a movement that is all about this. We get to see miracles happen in students’ lives.</li> <li>&nbsp;I was in Los Angeles last week. Brian, our USC Team Leader, shared that even in the midst of all of the challenges in our culture, our chapter at USC is seeing more people coming to faith, more first time decisions to follow Christ, than ever in their history. They have more small group Bible studies than ever before.</li> <li>&nbsp;Last month, I heard the story of one of our ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ athletes, Anthony at Amherst College. As a senior on the baseball team he has endured scorn and ridicule for his faith. On Sunday he wrote a prayer request at church—that he could share the Gospel with one of his teammates. God worked with him throughout the week and by Friday his entire team showed up for the Large Group meeting where he was speaking. He gave a call to faith and seven teammates responded.</li> </ul> <p><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.ā€</em></p> <h4>3.&nbsp; I give thanks for ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ.</h4> <p>Not just for these students being transformed, but for my own life being transformed through ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ, from my first freshman Bible study until today. ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ changed my life.</p> <ul> <li>&nbsp; When I stepped on campus, I wasn’t looking for campus ministry. But ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ came looking for me. Because of ¹ū¶³ŹÓƵ’s investment in student leadership, one student leader named JP reached out to me and shared his life with me. I saw him deeply abiding in Christ, his character like Christ, and on mission with Christ, every day on campus. Whatever he had, I wanted it.</li> <li>&nbsp;We studied Scripture together, the Gospel of Mark. I was invited to an ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ Winter Conference and Chapter Camp later that year. I made a decision at the end of camp to rededicate my life to Christ and to submit all areas of my life under His Lordship.</li> <li>&nbsp;Since that freshman year, ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ student leaders, then campus staff and area teams, then regional teams and Urbana teams that I’ve led, and my Cabinet colleagues, have all been part of what God has used to transform my life, molding me more and more into His image. I give thanks for ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ.</li> <li>&nbsp; I give thanks for ¹ū¶³ŹÓƵ’s 75-year history which we celebrated just a few weeks ago, 75 years of God using our imperfect, undeserving organization to establishing &amp; advancing witnessing communities on campus.</li> <li>&nbsp; At my August commissioning service, I shared what an honor it was to serve ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ as president. Today, I still feel the same. I am deeply thankful for ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ.</li> </ul> <p><em>ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.ā€</em></p> <h4>4. &nbsp;I give thanks for co-workers in the gospel.&nbsp;</h4> <p>1 Thessalonians 5 admonishes us: ā€œ<em>Acknowledge those who work hard among you…hold them in high regard in love because of their workā€</em> &nbsp;I thank the Lord for colleagues, those who work hard among us here in our National Service Center. When I look around the room, I am so grateful for each of the co-workers we get to serve alongside each day:</p> <p>A few weeks ago, I met with campus ministry presidents from Cru, Navigators, Youth For Christ, Young Life, and the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. I was in awe as they voiced their unanimous support of ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ and how they were standing with us. I had phone calls from the leaders of Fuller Seminary, Wheaton College, missions organizations, dozens of texts from ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ Press authors and co-workers in the gospel, affirming their partnership and support. Yesterday, I had a call with Christian Commnuity Development Association’s Executive Director about how we can partner, support each other, and be co-workers in the gospel. &nbsp;I give thanks for these co-workers.</p> <p><em>ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.ā€</em></p> <h4>5.&nbsp; I give thanks for God’s unfailing love.</h4> <p>In this season, I’ve seen the love from friends fail me at times. I’ve experienced disappointment. But Psalm 107 reminds us in verses 8, 15, 21, and 31: ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love.ā€ Psalm 107 addresses the temptation to focus on material realities rather than the spiritual realities, the temptation to ā€œgive thanks for a temporary material gainā€ rather than the constant spiritual reality of God’s love. No matter how my world is rocked, no matter what we lament today or worry about tomorrow, GOD LOVES YOU. God’s love is unfailing. ā€œHis love is endures forever.ā€</p> <p>I have experienced and received tangible expressions of God’s love through my family: surprise notes when I travel, emoji texts from my daughter, and even through a quiet retreat day at Starbucks where I hear reminders of God’s unfailing love for me.</p> <p><em>ā€œGive thanks to the Lord for he is good. His love endures forever.ā€</em></p> <p>What about you? What are you thankful for?</p> <ul> <li>&nbsp;Church? Part of a larger body of Christ?</li> <li>&nbsp;God’s wonders? Something you see God doing in your context?</li> <li>&nbsp;God’s work in your life? Some area of personal ministry?</li> <li>&nbsp;Co-workers?</li> <li>&nbsp;Family?</li> <li>&nbsp; God’s love?</li> </ul> <p>How can we better apply the discipline of giving thanks? How can we give thanks in ALL circumstances? Is there a difficult area of life to give thanks? Ask God how He would have you express your thanks in a different way this Thanksgiving.</p> </div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-news-keywords"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-news-keywords field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">News Keywords</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/1103" hreflang="en">Thanksgiving</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/2047" hreflang="en">Thankful</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/2036" hreflang="en">Remembering</a></div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> Wed, 23 Nov 2016 20:03:33 +0000 gordon.govier@intervarsity.org 8975 at Thanks from a Parent /news/thanks-parent <div class="layout layout--twocol-section layout--twocol-section--33-67"> <div class="layout__region layout__region--first"> <nav role="navigation" aria-labelledby="-menu" class="_none block block-menu navigation menu--about-us-menu"> <h2 class="visually-hidden" id="-menu">About Us Menu</h2> <ul class="clearfix nav" data-component-id="bootstrap_barrio:menu"> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/what-we-believe" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-what-we-believe" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/9386">What We Believe</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/our-purpose" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-our-purpose" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6927">Our Purpose</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/financial-info" title="Financial Info" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-financial-info" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6926">Financial Info</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/2024-2025-annual-report" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-2024-2025-annual-report" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/10901">2024-2025 Annual Report</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/leadership" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-leadership" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6928">Leadership</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/intervarsity-and-ifes-history" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-intervarsity-and-ifes-history" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6925">¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ and IFES History</a> </li> <li class="nav-item"> <a href="/about-us/news" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-news" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6929">News</a> </li> <li class="nav-item menu-item--collapsed"> <a href="/about-us/press-room" class="nav-link nav-link--about-us-press-room" data-drupal-link-system-path="node/6931">Press Room</a> </li> </ul> </nav> </div> <div class="layout__region layout__region--second"> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-news-type"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-news-type field--type-entity-reference field--label-hidden field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/2104" hreflang="en">News</a></div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-published-on"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-published-on field--type-datetime field--label-hidden field__item">November 23, 2011</div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-author"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-author field--type-string field--label-hidden field__item">Amy Hauptman</div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewstitle"> <div class="content"> <span class="field field--name-title field--type-string field--label-hidden"><h1>Thanks from a Parent</h1></span> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-square-image"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-square-image field--type-image field--label-hidden field__item"> <img loading="lazy" src="/sites/default/files/styles/300x169/public/news/parent.jpg?itok=DqVYYuv0" width="300" height="169" alt class="image-style-_00x169"> </div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsbody"> <div class="content"> <div class="clearfix text-formatted field field--name-body field--type-text-with-summary field--label-hidden field__item"><p>On a recent drive home, I received one of the most encouraging text messages in my five years on staff with ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ:</p> <p><em><em>ā€œKeep up the good work! I think ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ was one of the </em></em><em><em>reasons both my kids are walking with Jesus!ā€</em></em></p> <p>Marty Carraher and many other ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ alumni parents have encouraged ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ staff like me with their gratitude, whether in person, over email, or through text messages.</p> <p>And every time, I am reminded of why ¹ū¶³ŹÓƵ’s ministry is worth it.</p> <h3>Nothing More Encouraging</h3> <p>There is nothing more moving or encouraging to a staff member than hearing from the parents of transformed ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ college students. The gratitude that flows from a parent’s heart awakens staff members’ hearts to the beautiful and personal reality that God is in fact using ¹ū¶³ŹÓƵ’s ministry to transform their kids’ lives.</p> <p>I asked Marty if he would mind meeting up with me for coffee and sharing a little more of his own story.</p> <p>A week later, we met at a local coffee shop near campus, and Marty began to share:</p> <p>ā€œOne of the first things you need to know is that when I went to college at the University of Nevada, Reno in 1966 to 1971, I never really ā€˜got it’ about Jesus,ā€ Marty said. ā€œI also honestly didn’t care that much.ā€</p> <p>ā€œNow looking back, I realize that I didn’t care because I had never experienced the Holy Spirit,ā€ said Marty.</p> <p>While Marty had grown up his whole life in what he called ā€secular church,ā€ he never really understood what following Jesus looked like.</p> <h3>Taking God Seriously</h3> <p>It wasn’t until after college, getting married, and having two children that Marty began to seek God for himself. When a new church started in Reno, Marty and his wife decided to check it out. They liked it so much, they got involved.</p> <p>ā€œWe realized that we couldn’t expect our kids to take God seriously if we weren’t taking Him seriously,ā€ remarked Marty.</p> <p>So every Sunday as Marty and his wife dropped off their son and daughter at the children’s Sunday school classes, they started attending the adult Sunday school classes. It was in those classes that Marty began to really study the Bible for himself.</p> <p>While Marty and his family got more involved at their new church, Jesus invited Marty to take the next step—to follow him. Except this invitation didn’t happen at church.</p> <p>Marty remembered the night that he and his wife went to a Phil Driscoll concert in Caesar’s Palace in Lake Tahoe, where he began to feel like the Holy Spirit was directly speaking to him.</p> <p>ā€œPhil Driscoll is an amazing musician, and a passionate person. During Driscoll’s concert, he shared his life story and how Jesus had impacted his life,ā€œ said Marty. ā€œAfter hearing Driscoll’s story, I decided that I wanted to give Jesus my life.ā€</p> <p>Since then, Marty’s life has been transformed. When his kids started going to college, he was overjoyed that they both found ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ.</p> <h3>Involved in ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ</h3> <p>ā€œBoth of my kids were involved in ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ during college,ā€ remarked Marty. ā€œMy son helped with set-up for large group meetings and my daughter led a small group Bible study.ā€</p> <p>His kids also attended life-changing conferences like the Urbana Student Missions Conference and the Mark Bible Study Camp. His daughter was intentional about living in community with other Christians during college.</p> <p>ā€œI am so proud of my kids and who they’ve become,ā€ said Marty. ā€œMy daughter met her husband at ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ. They are both now teachers at North Bay Christian Academy in Novato, California, a K-12 Christian school wanting to make a difference in the lives of the next generation.ā€</p> <p>ā€œMy son has returned to school in Farmington, New Mexico, and has blessed me with four grandchildren,ā€ continued Marty. ā€œBoth he and his wife are helping teach couples about personal finances, getting out of debt, and staying out of debt through Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University ministry.ā€</p> <p>Marty shared that he is thankful that ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ taught his kids the value of changing the world while in college. Because now they are living it.</p> <p>ā€œThe best thing in the world is to lift others up, to encourage someone, to be the hug that someone might need,ā€ stated Marty. ā€œI didn’t learn that until much later after college.ā€</p> <p>ā€œI hope that those who are in college now will take advantage of every opportunity that ¹ū¶³ŹÓʵ has to offer,ā€ declared Marty. ā€œThere is nothing better than knowing Jesus and serving him and others with your whole life.ā€</p> </div> </div> </div> <div class="_none block block-layout-builder block-field-blocknodenewsfield-news-keywords"> <div class="content"> <div class="field field--name-field-news-keywords field--type-entity-reference field--label-above"> <div class="field__label">News Keywords</div> <div class="field__items"> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/1158" hreflang="en">University of Nevada Reno</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/1103" hreflang="en">Thanksgiving</a></div> <div class="field__item"><a href="/taxonomy/term/1011" hreflang="en">parents</a></div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> Wed, 23 Nov 2011 19:33:50 +0000 gordon.govier@intervarsity.org 8572 at